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This would again suck. I think I could live with myself, sex with partners would be less fulfilling... But now it is emotionally painful to have sex with my current equipment. to:
This would again suck. I think I could live with myself, sex with partners would be less fulfilling... But now it is emotionally painful to have sex with my current equipment. There is more to life than sex, so while this would stink... It would not be the end of my world. Changed line 76 from:
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I would attempt to figure out what I did wrong, and try again. If I found out I still could not get approval I would have to start saving for a few years until I could afford a surgeon who would see me. I cannot think of anything that should disqualify me from surgery, minus my insurance company being horrible (expected). Deleted line 117:
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I feel I have already answered this in Sophie's questions. Added lines 100-101:
Yes, I also feel I have already answered this. Added lines 104-105:
This would suck, it would probably bother me. This wouldn't be the end of the world. For one, I am currently deeply involved in a lesbian relationship, where depth doesn't matter at all! Still, I cannot deny that I would like to experience P/V intercourse. I am very attracted to men, and have always felt upset about having the wrong set of genitals. This feeling carries over into lesbian relationships as well. Added lines 107-108:
This would again suck. I think I could live with myself, sex with partners would be less fulfilling... But now it is emotionally painful to have sex with my current equipment. Changed line 25 from:
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Yes. I have seen results, and researched how Dr Bowers does her surgery. I feel like this is right for me. There are other methods that seem like they would also work for me, however in the end I do not see these methods as having any significant gains that watch Changed lines 58-59 from:
Recently, I have looked again at the available surgeons that my insurance company might cover and I have not changed my mind. I am attempting to go for surgery with Dr. Bowers. I have seen her speak once at DC Transgender Day of Remembrance. From the research I have done, Dr. Bowers techniques seem to offer me what I want (although I realize this might not be what I get). If necessary she can graft skin from various places on my body (thighs, buttocks, etc) to:
Recently, I have looked again at the available surgeons that my insurance company might cover and I have not changed my mind. I am attempting to go for surgery with Dr. Bowers. I have seen her speak once at DC Transgender Day of Remembrance. From the research I have done, Dr. Bowers techniques seem to offer me what I want (although I realize this might not be what I get). If necessary she can graft skin from various places on my body (thighs, buttocks, etc) to increase depth. Added lines 62-63:
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No. I was smoking, I will quit. Added lines 70-71:
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About three years ago (two years into living full time), I started to check my surgical options that would be available to me. I have looked at end results, and have settled on Dr. Marci Bowers or Dr. Christine McGinn? at performing the surgery suited to my needs. Recently, I have looked again at the available surgeons that my insurance company might cover and I have not changed my mind. I am attempting to go for surgery with Dr. Bowers. I have seen her speak once at DC Transgender Day of Remembrance. From the research I have done, Dr. Bowers techniques seem to offer me what I want (although I realize this might not be what I get). If necessary she can graft skin from various places on my body (thighs, buttocks, etc) Changed lines 45-46 from:
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I have read up on the complications around surgery. There are none that I see as complete deal breakers because the end result is still the same: I will no longer have a penis and testicles. So, even if I lost sensation and the ability to orgasm (two things that are very important to me) I think I would still be satisfied with the fact that I no longer have male genitals. Added lines 48-49:
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Copied from QuestionsBeforeSurgery and QuestionsBeforeSurgeryTemplate. Also added Sophie's questions as well as some of my own. - These are my answers, please feel free to copy this page and answer them yourself. Deleted line 28:
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My thoughtsThese are just my thoughts on surgery. Pros
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Methods differ between surgeons, given the above answers do you feel that you have found the best surgeon, for you, within your means?Changed lines 5-6 from:
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Copied from QuestionsBeforeSurgery, also added Sophie's questions - These are my answers, please feel free to copy this page and answer them yourself. Sophie's questionsThese questions were taken from sophie via irc. What is your motivation(s) for surgery, how would rank these motivations?Is there any potential outcomes that you know of which you would consider a dealbreaker (Opens up for figuring out if that is actually a dealbreaker)?What are your primary concerns and fears regarding surgery?How much time have you put into researching your surgery options?How do you think you will benefit from the surgery? What are your expectations towards the outcome, carefully evaluate needs vs wants.Do you have any chronic conditions illnesses that might potentially be a complication or roadblock to surgery?Have you confirmed with any available surgeons that it isnt? Be honest honest with yourself, as well as your surgeon -- you don't want to end up dead because you hid something out of fear.Questions Millie Gave Me To Think About Prior To SurgeryAdded line 44:
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(:Summary:Answers to questions from my therapist prior to surgery:) Copied from QuestionsBeforeSurgery - These are my answers, please feel free to modify them. written: 5/9/15 8:45PM to:
(:Summary:Answers to myself prior to surgery:) written: 5/9/15 19:55 Copied from QuestionsBeforeSurgery - These are my answers, please feel free to copy this page and answer them yourself. Added lines 1-31:
(:Summary:Answers to questions from my therapist prior to surgery:) Copied from QuestionsBeforeSurgery - These are my answers, please feel free to modify them. written: 5/9/15 8:45PM What do I want from my new genitalia? What do I want to have regarding my new vagina?Two follow-up hypothetical situations to try on and see how I would feel:
Would I Still Have Chosen Surgery Knowing That Would Be The Outcome?If I Ended Up With A Short Vagina, One That Precluded P/V Intercourse, How Would I Feel?Okay, So What If I Had The Depth, But There Was No Feeling?This Begs The Question: What If I Am Disqualified For Surgery? What Would I Do Then? |